Romans 16 feels deeply personal to me.
Paul is closing one of the most powerful theological letters ever written, yet before he finishes, he pauses to mention names. Real people. Faithful servants. Men and women who helped carry the Gospel forward when the road was dangerous and costly.
And among those names, Priscilla stands out to me.
Paul writes:
“Greet Priscilla and Aquila, my co-workers in Christ Jesus. They risked their lives for me…”
That phrase keeps sitting in my spirit:
“They risked their lives for me.”
What kind of woman lives with that level of courage?
Not celebrity.
Not platform.
Not applause.
Just deep faithfulness.
Priscilla was valiente.
Not loud.
Not self-promoting.
Not trying to be seen.
But strong.
Steady.
Trustworthy.
Spirit-filled.
The kind of woman every ministry thanks God for.
As I reflect on her life, I realize Paul did not honor her because she held a title. He honored her because she carried weight in the Kingdom.
She walked beside her husband Aquila, but she was not hidden in his shadow. Together they ministered as one. There is something beautiful about that kind of partnership in ministry. No competition. No striving for recognition. Just shared devotion to Jesus and His mission.
I think the Church still needs examples like that today.
People who simply say:
“Whatever helps the Gospel move forward — that’s what I want to do.”
One thing that keeps touching me is how often their home was used for ministry.
Their house became sacred space.
Believers gathered there.
Teaching happened there.
Prayer happened there.
Lives were strengthened there.
It reminds me that ministry is not confined to pulpits.
Some of the holiest ministry happens:
around kitchen tables,
inside living rooms,
through conversations,
through hospitality,
through someone simply making room for others.
There are valiente women in the Church right now carrying entire spiritual atmospheres in their homes.
Women who pray over their children late at night.
Women who keep believing for their families.
Women who create peace in chaotic seasons.
Women who quietly disciple people without ever asking for recognition.
Heaven sees them.
Another thing that stands out is that Priscilla was spiritually mature.
When Apollos was preaching with incomplete understanding, Priscilla and Aquila gently helped him understand the way of God more accurately.
I love that.
Not arrogance.
Not public embarrassment.
Just wisdom wrapped in humility.
That takes courage too.
Sometimes valiente women are not the loudest voices in the room.
Sometimes they are the wisest.
Women who know Scripture.
Women who carry discernment.
Women who know when to speak and when to pray.
Women who strengthen leaders instead of tearing them down.
The Church desperately needs that kind of maturity again.
And then there is the part I cannot get away from:
“They risked their lives for me.”
We are not told exactly what happened.
Paul leaves the details out.
But apparently there came a moment when Priscilla and Aquila decided the Gospel was worth personal danger.
That moves me deeply.
Because courage always costs something.
Real ministry eventually requires sacrifice:
comfort,
convenience,
security,
reputation,
sometimes even safety.
Priscilla was willing.
I wonder how many valiente women are still carrying hidden sacrifices today.
Serving while exhausted.
Praying while hurting.
Holding families together spiritually while silently fighting battles nobody knows about.
Faithful women who continue showing up for God even in difficult seasons.
Paul honored that kind of woman.
And I believe the Church should too.
As a pastor, I feel challenged by Romans 16.
Paul took time to publicly acknowledge faithfulness.
Maybe we need to slow down and do the same.
To honor the women who:
serve faithfully,
carry prayer burdens,
disciple others,
support ministry,
give sacrificially,
and remain steadfast through every season.
Not because we worship people —
but because honoring faithfulness reflects the heart of God.
Priscilla reminds me that powerful ministry is not always visible ministry.
Sometimes the strongest people in the Kingdom are the quiet builders.
The steady encouragers.
The faithful intercessors.
The courageous servants nobody notices except Heaven.
And yet God records their names.
That alone preaches to me.
Lord, help us become people who value faithfulness the way Heaven values faithfulness.
And help us never overlook the valiente women You have placed among us.